TESTING CONCERN

Piece of dialogue in the scene jokes on television about a beggar and a woman. Parlente woman, standing by the roadside. Waiting for a taxi. Suddenly a beggar approached him, while extend hand: "Alms Ma'am, I have not eaten!" He said, plaintively. "Equally, I also have not eaten," replied the woman, light, without glancing at the beggar.The scene was intended to invite laughter jokes. I was laughing. At first glance, the response of the woman, very precise, but the ridiculous: both had not eaten. Two sentences similar but have different meanings. Beggars have not eaten, probably because they do not have the money to buy food. Aka no one wants to eat. While the woman had not eaten, because it may not have time to eat. Still satisfied, or are dieting.Events such as these, are often encountered in real life. Because the real work of literature, film, drama, music, etc.., Removed from society phenomenon. Often, someone told me about problems facing life, just the other person instead of expressing sympathy, what else to offer assistance. In fact the opposite. Complaining about problems that happen to him anyway. The same issue but have vastly different characteristics. Perhaps, this is one form of human selfishness. Or might also attempt to avoid the member for help, even if just an expression of sympathy.Most of us, including me, maybe you, too, often think: "Can not help others because we also need to be helped". Logically, perhaps rightly so. How to help others, while our own hard? The absence has always been a reason to eliminate the obligation to help others. Yet, in truth everyone must have a sense of caring that is born of faith in God, who sees every activity servants.A story at the time of the Prophet recalled: Abu Hasan Ali ibn Abi Talib or the law of Allah, the Prophet is known as a generous friend. Abu Hasan had given all the money he had, some six dirhams to a beggar. The money had been due, to buy food for his two sons: Hasan and Husin. As a result, Abu Hasan came home with empty hands. He explained to his wife Fatimah Az-Zahra that money to buy food has he "lend to God", (people who give money to beggars equal to lend to Allah-al-Hadith).Furthermore, on the same day visited by an Arab Abu Hasan Badawi intends to sell a camel to Abu Hasan for one hundred dirhams. Prices are very cheap at the time. And great uncle of the Messenger of the child should pay for it, if you already have money. After a time, come again another an Arab Badawi, offered camels Abu Hasan for three hundred dirhams. God has given sustenance to Abu Hasan sum of two hundred dirhams.On the basis of concern, without the advance return for a miracle like the story of Ali bin Abi Talib above, one afternoon the overcast, drizzly and cold. Representing feeling a little irritated, I sat alone in the guest chair, with both feet selonjor on the table. A cup of coffee seems pretty warm ginger.Suddenly, a middle-aged man appeared in the doorway while greeting. Men with relatively small stature, height about 125 cm is Mr. Ramli. As usual he first greeted me smile. Our family had been long enough to recognize Mr. Ramli. Approximately since settling in this housing a dozen years ago. His job as collector donated money to the donors orphanage which is located not far from the housing complex, Mr. Ramli made a loyal visitor to our house. Beginning the first week of every month, usually Mr. Ramli is always coming. Only this time, I was somewhat taken aback. I currently do not have money to donate. Although our family was recorded as the donor remains for the orphanage where Mr. Ramli serve, it does not mean we always have money for donations. And was not some time ago Mr. Ramli's here and it feels, I've paid for this month? I then went up to him. Before she could ask, Mr. Ramli first arrival times to explain this, for other purposes.For a moment he was silent. "Tell me sir, what can I help you, 'I urged him. "My son Mom, tomorrow receive a report card, but before I have to pay school fees in arrears, the total amount of  150.000, - Rupiah. I do not have the money, perhaps she could help me. God willing, next month I pay, "he said in a thick accent minang.Tuition, wow ..., again tuition. I myself, this afternoon has just done a little heavy psychologically. Going to the Principal and asked her policy so that children can still receive my report card. Although not yet paid tuition fees by the amount of ten times that required Mr. Ramli for his report card. Of course, I did not tell this problem to Mr. Ramli. Wherever possible I avoid being like a scene jokes in the story above. I then took the money in your wallet that takes a number of Mr. Ramli. For 150,000, - Rupiah seems to still exist. Problem shopping tomorrow, God will have lower sustenance, God willing.The same problem but not similar. Without intention to brag, I am among those who learned at least compared with Mr. Ramli. I have the power to appear before the Principal and succeed. I think it rightly so. Regarding school policy, there must be tolerance. Education, including government program priorities. In fact, the issue of education has become a commodity issue for a number of political figures to gain the sympathy of the people. Starting from the international standard of the school bid, cheap and even free education school, became a campaign slogan everywhere. So ironic, if there are schools that "hostage" report card with the reasons students do not pay school fees.But, for Mr. Ramli, a simple man, not fluent in Indonesia, this issue becomes very difficult. Until he could not sleep by the narrative. It was, less ethical as well, I teach Mr. Ramli in a way that I take in my child's report card fighting for. Even if I explain, very small chance of success. Therefore, based on observations, little man with a small body of hard to get a place anywhere, especially when dealing with bureaucracy in this country. I can only give limited that he can receive. Limited to testing the sense of concern ....