INTIMACY

David Beckham

"Have you ever thought of sleeping with David Beckham? I slept with him almost every night ". That statement made Victoria Beckham, in a seminar of women some time ago in Los Angeles. On the occasion which was attended by hundreds of mothers and teenage daughters, Victoria describes vividly the secret intimacy of life with David Beckham, soccer star's world. He explained that the secret is very simple. Sleep in a state that is totally naked. Well ...............!

Although impressed vulgar, seems plausible. Why not. Men who suffer from impotence may even be cured, if the opportunity to sleep with a super model Victoria Bekhcam classmates. Naked anyway.

However, based on the story of female friends about her partner pleasure in making out. It seems that each individual has their own secret intimacy. There is a friend who said her husband happy when he dressed in his sleep. Then started having sex with a disarming little by little clothing on the body. When there are no plans making out, he slept with a complete wearing nightclothes. Although wearing towel only he did in the bathroom alone. The friend, he said precisely nudity is something that is very taboo and very secret in him. Hence only occurs when the-when the time is very special. And this is a special moment for her husband.

Meanwhile, a man-of-admitted me, never by accident (including a peek) a woman (sorry) are urinating on a friend's house who happened to be the event there. A house is being renovated bathroom, so the bathroom door was not installed intact. From a distance he had already glanced some metre pair of upper legs are white and smooth, he said. Suddenly, his chest shaking. He wondered and waited quietly who the hell was going out of the bathroom. Apparently, it was his wife who emerged from the bathroom. The moment it was a very memorable event for him and always imagined, especially when having sex with his wife. Intimacy is something very subjective.

Now, let's get out of the story-rather "hot" at the top. Looking at the intrinsic meaning of a piece of the word "intimacy". In terms of day-to-day "intimacy" are always associated with sexual relations. But, scientifically, from the point etymology, "romance" comes from the word "intimate" meaning hard, very close, close and intimate feelings. Feeling close and intimate (intimacy) does not mean anything, without first piece in other words, that "love". The man took johns sexy woman, sits docked at a cafe. Is an example of intimacy that is not meaningful, because it is not based on love.

And, according to Steven R. Covey most appropriate time to love your spouse is when feelings of love begins to thin, even when love is no longer perceived. Because according to Covey's "love" is not included adjectives such as those listed in the dictionary. But a verb.

In general, it is said men and even women-able to advance the company's business and gain a glorious career. Ironically, very few of those who persevere in the struggle to maintain cordial love lasting home. Feelings and levels of love that intimate nature left to only. thanks godness. Be aware of how many households that ran aground due to the drying up of love and intimacy. Now, many seminars, features that address these issues including tips on offer.

Of the various theories, the key to establish a real relationship is communication. Healthy communication creates a comfortable atmosphere. I've noticed that a household can not establish good communication with their partner. Never mind the style of Victoria Beckham sleeping, although sleeping roommate not. The reason, the wife could not sleep in air-conditioned room, while her husband otherwise. Consequently, the husband slept with a boy in the room, while his wife slept in separate rooms with other children. Even more sad, when there is a family picnic. The wife sat in the back seat, while her husband drove the car and sat beside the boy earlier.

More severe financial problems, his wife never knew how much the husband's income. Spending money given according wanted husband, not based on household needs. Husband bought any goods without ever telling his wife first. As a result, many years of family life has never experienced a significant advance. In fact, they were educated people. The husband instead of a political figure. Both husband and wife, as if walking on their own without a purpose.

In principle, women view love and intimacy more than just a verb. More than just an intense communication. Love and intimacy is the dedication in a long time, the endless demands of a lifetime. Although not rare, true devotion in the form of sacrifice ended in deep disappointment.

I myself do not want to romance a secret indulgence in bed, in any occasion. Sometimes, a husband instead of me doing a routine job. Sweeping, feeding pets, without being harassed is part of the intimacy that comes from the heart. Meanwhile, I myself joined the ranks of congestion, traffic passing slow-moving vehicles like the turtle is part of an impossible situation i change. A busy morning, the task of taking a child to school regularly, if do from the heart really is a form of intimacy in a peaceful harmony of love. (Asmanidar)